***Of This And That
In The Old North Adamsville Neighborhood-In
Search Of…..Roots
From The Pen Of Frank
Jackman
For those who have been following
this series about the old days in my old home town of North Adamsville,
particularly the high school day as the 50th anniversary of my
graduation creeps up, will notice that recently I have been doing sketches
based on my reaction to various e-mails sent to me by fellow classmates via the
class website. Also classmates have placed messages on the Message Forum page when they have something they want to share
generally like health issues, new family arrivals or trips down memory lane on
any number of subjects from old time athletic prowess to reflections on growing
up in the old home town. Thus I have been forced to take on the tough tasks of
sending kisses to raging grandmothers, talking up old flames with guys I used
to hang around the corners with, remembering those long ago searches for the
heart of Saturday night, getting wistful about elementary school daydreams,
taking up the cudgels for be-bop lost boys and the like. These responses are no
accident as I have of late been avidly perusing the personal profiles of
various members of the North Adamsville Class of 1964 website as fellow
classmates have come on to the site and lost their shyness about telling their
life stories (or have increased their computer technology capacities, not an
unimportant consideration for the generation of ’68, a generation on the cusp
of the computer revolution and so not necessarily as computer savvy as the
average eight-year old today).
Some stuff is interesting to a
point, you know, including those endless tales about the doings and not doings
of the grandchildren, odd hobbies and other ventures taken up in retirement and
so on although not worthy of me making a little off-hand commentary on. Some other
stuff is either too sensitive or too risqué to publish on a family-friendly
site. Some stuff, some stuff about the old days and what did, or did not,
happened to, or between, fellow classmates, you know the boy-girl thing (other
now acceptable relationships were below the radar then) has naturally perked my
interest.
Other stuff defies simple
classification as is the case here in dealing with growing up poor in America
in the 1950s (our coming of age time) and the 1960s (our, those of us who migrated
that way, political coming of age time). On a generic class website it is easy
to tout successes, awards, rewards, and those ubiquitous grandchildren since
the whole point is to cut up old torches. Dealing with the underbelly of what
life was like in hard-shell North Adamsville, a strictly working-class area
with a smattering of lower middle class professionals dependent on an every
diminishing shipbuilding industry that even then was heading off-shore, is
another matter. Perhaps not even good form, although the vast majority of the
five hundred plus students who graduated in my class came from working-class
and poor homes. So be it. Here I want to talk about the poor from first-hand
knowledge not because I particularly want to talk about it, having beaten the
issue to death about six different ways in other contents but because a fellow
classmate, Brother Ronald, whom I respect greatly for his career path has sent
me a series of private e-mails about his own growing up poor, a story that
actually outdoes my growing up poor story. So maybe the real point is there are
always worse circumstances around. No, that is not right, the point is to fight
like hell to change those circumstances and create a more just society. But
that is for the future right now let’s look at Brother Ronald’s growing up
plight.
That “brother” designation by the
way is not some off-hand political honorific, although I suppose given the
circumstances it could be that too, but because Brother Ronald is a brother. A
brother in the Xaiverian Brothers, a Catholic cleric organization (not priests,
but just below in the church hierarchy) which reaches out to the poor, the
needy, and those in prison. The way I know this is because Brother Ronald has
come on to the site describing the work he has been doing for the past fifty
years. Now as such things go Brother Ronald is a modest man and would not have
touted his work on his own. What he responded to was a request by a classmate
who had done a tribute to Brother Ronald and asked him to fill the rest of us
in. That tribute by the way was done by a classmate not of Brother Ronald’s
faith but by one who recognized that he was on the right side of the angels in
his life’s work.
One of the main considerations beyond
his fervent religious beliefs gathered in his youth for Brother Ronald’s career
choice had been that he grew up poor in the Acre section of North Adamsville, a
tough neighborhood right on the edge of where the poor, the desperados, and the midnight shifters
hang out. From the outside of the several blocks of two and three family houses
and block-long apartment buildings the place looks like a lot of the rest of
the town but as Brother Ronald filled me in I saw a very different side and now
concede the point that his place was much tougher to grow up in that mine. See
I always considered my house on “the wrong side of the tracks” (which it was)
but you can go lower if you look.
Here is the way Brother Ronald
placed things in context. Many years ago, in the 1970s somebody wanted to do a
film adaptation of George V. Higgins’ The
Friends of Eddie Coyne, about the cutthroat
doing of the underworld a la Whitey Bulger and that ilk, and was looking for a
location to film the seedy neighborhood where Eddie did his underworld business.
The Acre to the protests of some of the residents (maybe muted protests but
protests nevertheless) who did not see their neighborhood that way, or did not
want it portrayed that way was selected and that location was used in the film.
As far as I can tell my neighborhood, Five Points, never drew any consideration
as a site. Here though is the beauty of what Brother Ronald was about which I
will quote from an e-mail:
“All I know was that it was a tough dollar growing up poor
when a lot of our classmates were a step above I think (although a recent trip
back made me think that was a relative thing). I carry that knowledge and what
it did to my psyche with me (as you do) but I have unlike others not forgotten
my roots and on the questions of war and peace, social and economic justice I
know I have stood on the right side of the angels. Later- Ronald”
Enough said
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