A Slice Of Teenage
Life-Circa 1960s-With Myrna Loy And Cary Grant’s “The Bachelor And The
Bobby-Soxer” In Mind
By Guest Film Critic
Prescott Blaine
[Prescott Blaine, now
comfortably retired, comfortably for those editors, publishers and fellow
writers particularly those who have tangled with him on the film criticism
beats for the past forty years or so decided he just had to comment about his
own growing up in the 1950s teenage life. I had done a short film review on a
1940s film The Bachelor and the Bobby-Soxer. Cary Grant the bachelor to Shirley Temple’s
bobby-soxer with Myrna Loy more well-known as the helpful detective in her own
right wife Nora Charles opposite William Powell’s Nick in the seemingly
never-ending The Thin Man series of the same decade. I had in
passing mentioned my reasoning for even touching this piece of fluff. The key
was in the title, or part of it, the “bobby-soxer” part which represented to my
mind one of the key terms from teenage times in the 1940s where bobby-soxers
were associated with the fast jitter-bugging set since those socks made it
easier to traverse those slippery high school gym floor where sock hops have
been held since, well, since they started having school dances to keep unruly
and wayward kids in check. I figured I would get a low-down on what was what.
I had followed a false
lead though since despite the enticing possibility that I would learn something
about teenage life in the immediate post-World War II period the real thrust of
the film was the inevitable romancing between Grant and Loy’s characters. I
should have sensed that if goody-goody Shirley Temple was holding forth I would
learn less about that decade’s teen concerns than if I had asked a surviving
elderly uncle of mine.
Oh sure I did learn that
girls went crazy for guys with “boss” cars, worried, worried somewhat about
their reputations meaning worrying about being known as high school sluts and
that they were as perfidious when the deal went down as the teenage girls in
Prescott’s and my generation and probably now too. When I mentioned that to him
one day in his office at the American Film Review where he
still shows up occasionally to do pinch-hit work when the editor Ben Goldman
needs a quick “think” piece to fill up an issue he laughed at me. Laughed at me
foremost because of my, his term, sophomoric idea that you could learn anything
about teen life in any age when you had certified stars like Grant and Loy
tangling just short of the satin sheets and because it would not be until the
1980s when Hollywood produced some films based on S.E. Hinton’s novels that you
would get anything like an informative look at a slice of real teen
life.
Follow me here to get an
idea of what Mr. Blaine is like when he gets on his hobby-horse. From that
“profound” (my quotation marks) comment he asked, I won’t say begged because
Prescott is not like that most of the time, or at least he wasn’t in the old
days, to let me use my space here to go back into his teenage days in the
1950s, the mid-1950s when rock and roll came running up the road (although we
are near contemporaries my coming of age teenage time was about five years
later and reflected a drought period in rock and roll which I filled in by
“discovering” the blues). Needless to say since this piece has Prescott’s
by-line he sold me on the idea-for one shot anyway. Below is what he wants to
share about 1950s teenage culture-Sam Lowell]
WTF Sam (a term I would
not have used in my professional career in print and certainly not to start an
article but as Sam has mentioned I am comfortably ensconced in retirement and
besides I am playing on his dime) even a wet behinds the ears kid in the 1950s
who didn’t figure out what was what until sometime in the mid-1960s knows that
when the fresh breeze of rock and roll hit the planet the whole thing opened up
the big three that was on every alive and awake teenager, teenage boy (the
girls can speak for themselves but they will tell the same basic story)
mind-drive-in theaters, drive-in restaurants and grabbing every loose girl not
tied down. (Not literally but then we had a strange male-driven code honored I
think more in the breech than the observance that if a girl had a guy that
meant she was off-limits to other guys. Like I said honored in the breech much
mother that the observance.)
WTF sex is what I am
talking about because all three things were connected by a million threads, a
million threats that made up 1950s
teenage life (maybe now too but since drive-in movies and restaurants and maybe
access to girls too depended on the golden age of the automobile car, borrowed
or sweated for, which today’s youth are not nearly as enamored of, hell, some
of them don’t even have driver’s licenses that premise may be questioned). Tie
all that in with rock and roll and the rest of what I have to say makes total
sense even to a guy like Sam.
A lot of what was what
then had to do with corner boy life something that has for the most part gone
by the boards between the rise of the malls (and “mall rats” a totally
different thing than on the edge, quasi-illegal corner boy life reflecting
certain hungers that never could be satisfied in a strictly legal way which the
denizens of the mall do not exhibit since they are fixed up pretty well) and
the totally bizarre actions of local police departments to hustle kids off the
street corners on behalf of local
businessmen and satraps. Let’s face it the whole mix had to be cemented with
dough, dough anyway we could get it, or we would still be standing on those forlorn
corners (or doing time in some state or county institution).
Not to belabor the point
but it bears notice it is amazing how much our waking hours, maybe dreaming
hours too centered on girls (and those dreaming hours included the then
forbidden talk about masturbation, about what Father Lally up at Sacred Heart
Catholic Church called “touching” yourself but we all knew what he meant even
if we were not quite sure what masturbation was and would have never dared
asked parents about such an evil thing (according to Lally who would later be
transferred out because he “touched” boys and girls and was an early figure of
interest in the breakthrough Catholic priest abuse scandal that rocked the archdiocese of Boston, via the spotlight
from The Boston Globe). Nor would
they have voluntarily or involuntarily been forthcoming about sex issues and so
we learned most of it on the streets-mainly wrong or stupid.
There were some funny
parts, maybe not funny at the time but funny now and stuff I want to tell about
for the record since not only are we fading from the scene but the two-
generation social media-driven gap between my growing up time and today is far
greater than between box-soxers of the 1940s and the cashmere sweaters of the
1950s. A staple of existence then for poor boys especially was the weekly
school and/or church dance since we could not afford other pay dances held in
various locations for the progeny of the town swells. The dances although
touted by the school and church authorities as keeping us youth from going over
the edge on the rock and roll craze which they saw as just an episode, a fade
really were our lifeline into social existence. (That Father Lally mentioned
early used the dances for laying a trap for his prey as it turned out and more
than one teacher chaperone at school dances got a little over the top when the
girls came along looking all sexy and serene.)
They at least got us to bathe, shave if necessary, use deodorant, slick
our hair and wear something other than cuff-less chinos or blue jeans since
sports jackets and dress shirts were required.
But that was all social
graces stuff. What we craved, what we spent the week day-dreaming and talking
about was who we would dance with (or who would dance with us). Above all else
who would we dance the last slow dance of the night with after our night’s
efforts. Most of the music of the times, mercifully in many cases, was geared
to fast dancing which meant each partner was more or less free to do their own
gyrations and keep a safe distance from toes and other vulnerable body parts of
that partner but the last dance was always a slow one, one that those “going
steady” immediately got up and danced to, and others who had some prior
arrangement as well.